I agree with him in all 5 parts, but I want to add something to number 5.
Yes, you should accept change and you should move on. But I think if there is a way to change something, why not try to change it? You don't always just have to agree with everything and accept everything. Where would we be today if we had just accepted every single change someone else made? I personally think that you should fight for something if you really wan't something and if it is worth fighting for. For me it is not worth fighting for getting back into elementary school at the age of 17, because I will never again have classes there as a pupil. But I accept that, most of the time. But say a friend of mine decided to not be my friend again over night, would I just accept it and move on? Well if this friend is important to me and if I think I need him, then I would not just accept it and move on. I would try to get him back. But isn't that the exact opposite of moving on? It is fighting for something and fighting for something is not a bad thing if it makes you feel better and if it makes you think that you can reach your goal someday. Sometimes it is a good thing not to move on if it makes you feel stronger and if it makes you feel like you can achieve something. But still, don't hang onto things you can't change, even if it hurts a lot, everyone has to move on at some point. You have to decide when, don't listen to people that tell you to stop. But listen to the ones you care about, because they are the ones that also care about you and they are the ones that really know you.
So before I move one, I decide if I can change the things that were changed or if I can't. But because I am just a 17 year old, I still make wrong decisions and sometimes I try to change something I can't change. I guess that's just how life is.
Thank you for reading.
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